Research On Men's Silence (Mohammed)

Which i can never understand it until just now. So, im a bit off today... im trying to be like mohammed. Keep things to myself and not say how i was feeling towards him today. Gosh! That was like the hardest thing to... It kept me thinking the whole day.. How on earth he is able to do that every single day?! That was absolutely ridiculous!

Ok ok, people might just go... Oh no, not again Sue! Lovey dovey stuff... Ok no! This time im clearing my doubts on him and to understand him better... i mean, i understand him so much now.. but you know a little more better... if you know what i mean....

I did a research on why men love to hide or keep their feelings and emotions unlike women... Ok, i guess if any guy is reading this... they might just roll their eyes... Ok, if my mohammed keep on saying.. 'I was born like this' over and over again... That doesn't help me even a single bit... In fact, i will suffer with doubts..

Too much of a talking... Urgh Sue! Focus! Ok, there were so many related sources... but this one i like the best:

Secret # 1: Men express their feelings through action more than through words.

When your boyfriend has a bunch of flowers delivered to your office, it’s his way of saying that he’s thinking about you. When a relatively new beau plans for a long weekend that you two can go together next summer - it’s his way of saying that he plans to stick around for a long time. When he has your car sent to the mechanic for an engine check-up, its means that he cares a lot about your safety. The cliché actions speak louder than words applies when it comes to men’s feelings.

So instead of waiting for an undying declaration of love - look for those little and grand gestures which show rather than tell you how he feels.

Secret # 2: Men are reluctant to talk because they’re afraid of saying something wrong.

Admit it -almost every woman feels like she can give Oprah a run for her money as a talk show host. This is exactly what men are intimidated with. For the most part, men feel that if they open up about their feelings, women will put on their ‘psyche’ mode. They feel that saying the wrong thing will put them in a lot of trouble -that’s why they clam up. Giving them some a lot of leeway in this area is always a good idea.

Secret # 3: It’s a neurological thing.

Without the basic physical and psychological differences between men and women, relationships would not be as exciting. Life would never be the same without experiencing the joys of falling in love and suffering the pains of a breakup.

Now, when it comes to talking about feelings, the culprit is the Corpus Callosum, the part of the brain which connects the left and right brain hemisphere. Let’s not go into the scientific stuff here -but the gist is that this part of the brain is larger in women than men. The result is that women can think and feel at the same time -while men naturally separate their feelings from what they are thinking. This creates their reluctance to talk about all that mushy stuff that women love to hash out.

Well, i fully understand him now... Hehehehehe! So cool!!

Ok, So i've seen all this in mohammed before and seriously, i felt so much better after reading this... Secret #3 i like it the best! You know the part where it says that it has got something to do with our brain helped me so much! I mean, i have no idea how does it work and it is so scientific which somehow, i felt that was just it! I'm doubt-free!!!

And by the way, maybe im a little out-dated but there is this book to recommend women who still wonder why men don't pour their feelings to them. It is the 'Why Men Don't Listen and Women Can't Read Maps' By Allan and Barbara Pease. Gotta go to the library tomorrow!! Dozing off now!

Courtesy from: http://allwomenstalk.com/top-secrets-why-men-dont-talk-about-their-feelings/